Sooooo….I know it’s been awhile, I am still separated, in a new country, about to start the divorce….Can you believe it’s almost a year already???? I CAN!!!! ☺☺
So much has happened I don’t know where to begin…Let’s start with, I MET SOMEONE….YESSSSS A HANDSOME, GODLY, GOOD BODY, INTELLIGENT MAN. Hmmmm I did say so, Godly man!!!!! God has been gooooood to me!!!!! Well….great actually…
Here beginneth…lol…we met four months ago…I met him in person about two weeks ago. Yes, we met on an online dating site…I left my home country, only to meet someone from my home country…the irony! Lol. We communicate daily, texts, phone calls, video calls, I mean it obviously is a long distance relationship, which I deeply believe to have been designed by God that way….We Christian women need to keep the ‘flesh’ under subjection. But…it gives us time to get to know each other more on a spiritual and intimate level…not so much physical, which eventually I know will surface, I DID SAY EARLIER ‘GOOD BODY’ 🙂 but to the reality of the situation; I questioned myself. Is it too soon? Am I ready for another man after 10years of being with ONE.? Is he the one? I have no time to waste, I have a toddler and I told God the next man that comes in my life must be it! No time for games, I seek to please him wholeheartedly, and honor him with my body and actions. So this man better come at me right! Lol..(my thoughts in the moment of happenings).
How has it been so far:
- As I look towards 2018, I’m expectant for what God’s about to do.
- We are getting to know each other more…daily.
- We pray and read our bibles together…yes over the phone.
- We encourage and speak positively into each others lives.
- We flirt 🙂 (he says the silliest things… Likewise myself).
- We listen to each other attentively.
- We speak of our past and how our experiences can benefit us as a couple in going forward.
- We make plans for the future; building God’s Kingdom is the main desired goal.
- We speak of marriage…yes…(two…well almost two divorcee’s speak of marriage again)
As you read this, questions may come across your mind… But you’re not even divorced yet, and in another relationship? Isn’t that adultery? ☺☺Yes it is a sin. Because I am legally still married. Biblically, there is no such thing as legally separated. You are either married or single. It’s ‘Wifestales’ tales of a wife. My story. My experiences. This is not about sugar coating anything it’s telling my readers the reality of MY situation and what often times happen around us everyday. I chose to blog about it :). He is divorced. I am in the process of getting mine started. However, all this doesn’t change that we are both Christians and we know what’s acceptable and what’s right and wrong. We plan to make it right. If he’s still around by the time I write my next blog…lol…(just kidding).
Prayers. Optimistic. Ready for Love. In Love. Happy. Wife to Separated. Separated to New Wife (in the making).
If you’ve been following the blogs (though not many) I have been in a marriage where I was unhappy, to be honest not for all of it. BUT there comes a breaking point, when enough has got to be enough. Though I am a christian woman, a mother, and a firm believer in marriages. I have the wisdom to know from a Biblical, as well as a societal stand point how a man is to treat a woman. Love doesn’t cause constant pain, sadness, depression, or resentment towards the person you took a vow to love and honor and care for you.
No man cannot love you FULLY without understanding what Love IS and WHO it came from. God is LOVE!